Every now and then, I do receive feedback from my kids’ parents, and here’s another happy feedback I had for one of my students.
Here’s the story:
This girl came to me being unmotivated I started by teaching her her favorite song. Even though I had to transcribe the song from what I hear from YouTube into notes, I’m glad it’s worth the hard work.
From not wanting to perform at the student recital which I’ll be organizing next week, to now, she’s considering to perform!
In a short span of 2 months, she became so motivated, I’m super super proud of her!
It builds in character especially the little ones, and some, if not all of these, lies on the responsibility of the teacher to impart into them.
I am thankful that I learn piano as a child and still learning till today, having first hand experience of different teachers and the way they teach, I receive their impartation and continue to pass it on to the little kids I teach.
Playing the piano can be one of the most lovely skills you can learn. When you know how to play the piano, you can play any music you like, you can play when you are stressed, you can play when you are happy, and if you like, you can also play for others.
Many people wished that they can play the piano. Some learn when they are young, some want to learn when they are older. After having giving piano lessons in Singapore for more than 7 years, I realized that piano is an instrument that is loved by all ages! I have taught kids of 5 years old, and adults of 60 years old and above, their first piano lesson. Both lessons are equally enjoyable for them, and for me.
I understand that many adults would love to learn the piano, but one big question they have is this:
“Can I still learn the piano, at my age?”
I truly understand where they are coming from.
In Singapore, especially in this ‘kiasu’ (scared-to-lose) culture, parents send their kids to multiple enrichment classes as young as 3 years old. Yes, I do have parents requesting me to teach their 2 years old child too. When you see so many kids attending piano lessons, the common assumption would be that ‘piano lessons are for kids’.
Not only that. Often, you will see awesome videos of young children winning piano competitions, or playing incredibly difficult pieces at a very young age of 4 to 5 years old. This is one really talented child:
We have to give credit to these children. They are really good in their playing, and they will become world-class pianists in no time.
When we see all these around us, we will always think “Wow, what did I do when I’m at that age?” , “Why didn’t I learn something when I was young?”, and it will slowly lead to “It’s too late to learn piano now as I’m not young anymore”.
All these thoughts are just holding you back. No one says the piano is only for kids. No one says adults can’t learn piano.
In fact, I’m going to tell you why you will learn piano faster and better than a child, even if you have ZERO music background.
1. As an adult, you have longer attention span
You’ve been though school, and you’re probably okay with sitting and paying attention for 20 to 30 minutes. Take a break, and continue for another 15 minutes or so.
But kids can’t sit for long as their attention span is short. As the teacher, you need to keep engaging them, take little breaks here and there. Or worse, you have to discipline them for walking around and not focused on lessons.
2. As an adult, you know what discipline is
You know that if you want to achieve a goal, you need to put in hard work, and practice consistently. In my experience of teaching adults, I can say that 90% of adult learners are self-motivated to learn and practice. At most, you just need a little reminder, that’s all.
On the other hand, kids may not know what discipline is. Sometimes, parents have to enforce a strict practice regime to get them to be discipline. Hence, as adults, you’re likely to learn faster than kids as you have less of these discipline issues.
3. As an adult, you know more tunes and songs
You would have love some classical or pop songs, and that’s why you’re interested in learning piano. And because you know the tunes inside you, you can pick up sounds easier. You learn to recognise notes faster too. And needless to say, if you’re learning to play songs you love, you will naturally love to practice and play it perfectly.
However, also because as an adult, you may have some disadvantages as well.
But don’t worry, they are not that bad.
1. You have other commitments
You may have completed school, but you may have to work, or juggle family and personal time. That’s where it can be challenging sometimes to have piano lessons.
Sometimes, because of your work, you may need to skip a few lessons. Hence, if you want to learn the piano, do set a fixed time and day of the week for lesson, and commit to it.
2. Your fingers may be a little stiffer
Many adult learners will say that their fingers are not as flexible as the kids, hence, they may not move as fast, or play as good as kids. It’s true that if you never play piano before, your fingers will seems rigid and stubborn.
However, your fingers will become more flexible once you played the piano over time. The constant movement and finger exercises in your piano lessons will get your joints loosen up and be more flexible. So don’t worry about this.
3. You may have pre-conceived ideas about learning music
You want to learn the piano, but you think that you may not be able to play it, because you think you’re tone-deaf. You attended a few piano lessons, and you realise you took some time to understand some musical notes and playing. You feel like giving up as you think you’re a slow learner, and not talented for music.
That’s the real issue that will hold back many adult learners. Kids don’t think that way, because they don’t know if they are not talented, or if they are slow learner. They just go for lessons, practice, and they improve. (By the way, playing music is not about talent. But that’s article for another day!)
So if you really want to learn the piano, throw out all these pre-conceived ideas about yourself that holds you back from learning the piano well.
So if you’re an adult, can you still learn the piano? The answer is absolutely yes. And it’s not because we want you to sign up for our adult piano classes right away. It’s because it is entirely possible for anyone to learn piano at any age, and we’ve seen many adults of all ages fulfil their childhood dream of playing the piano.
I shall start the year by looking back at this successful event which I’ve organised with teacher Marcus Ng from www.ViolinMusicSchool.net. Say It With Music 2014 is a students’ concert in which we give them a stage for them to gain confidence and exposure in performing in front of a crowd.
We gather both our students and prepare them for a concert. I have my piano students, and teacher Marcus has his violin students. How about the audience? What more could be better than having the support of our loved ones to watch us play?
I’m glad that after a year in teaching, I can inspire them to go up the stage to perform for their loved ones. And this is the reason why we organize this concert! You see, practicing a song and performing a song are two different things.
Most of the time, when students come to practice a song that they have learnt, they can do it without much difficulty. As long as they practice correctly and regularly, they can play the song well.
However, everything will be different when it is about performing, even if it is performing the same song. The nerves will appear, stage fright might come in, ‘mind can go blank’ anytime. These are some of the common worries students have when we ask them to perform.
If performing is that scary, why do we still want to organize a concert to put them in a spot? We want them to gather experience in preparing a song for performance! And that can only be done if we give them a stage to do so, and not countless of hours of practicing without a single minute of stage time.
I’m glad that everyone had a great time! Whether or not that performance was perfect isn’t the most important thing, the fact that everyone had something to take home from this event makes it memorable.
Big cheers for my students!
I’m looking forward to hold another concert soon in the year 2015. Do check out the video highlights of the concert we have compiled below. Happy New Year! (: